slays and nays

An insider’s guide to gay Korea: Top LGBTQ+ spots to visit

Three photos from Blue Kim's Instagram video

Korea is a vibrant destination with so much to offer, especially for LGBTQ+ travelers. If you’re planning a trip and wondering where to go, what to see, and—most importantly—where to party, we’ve got you covered.

Instagram influencer and Big Brother 25 houseguest, Blue Kim, recently shared her rapid-fire take on the best (and not-so-great) spots in Korea for queer visitors.

Below, we break down her recommendations to ensure your trip is filled with major slays and avoids the nays.

Itaewon: Your go-to gayborhood

When it comes to LGBTQ+ nightlife in Korea, Itaewon is the place to be. “Honestly, if you’re [gay] going out in, Itaewon is where you want to be at,” she advises. This neighborhood is packed with queer-friendly events and clubs, offering a welcoming space for everyone under the rainbow.

Cakeshop in Itaewon? Major slay!”

According to Kim, Cakeshop club is incredibly queer-friendly, hosting a range of techno and house events, and attracting some of the coolest artists around. Whether you’re in the mood to dance all night or just vibe with like-minded people, Cakeshop is a must-visit.

Another spot in Itaewon that gets a glowing review is Seoul Community Radio. She describes it as a “major slay” and a hub for queer-friendly events. If you appreciate a good mix of music, community, and culture, this place is essential for your Korea itinerary.

Hongdae: Proceed with caution

While Hongdae might be popular among foreigners, Kim points out that it’s not necessarily the best place for LGBTQ+ travelers.

“Most Hongdae clubs? Nay!”

She mentions that the area is dominated by a younger, straight crowd, making it less ideal for queer visitors. While there is a lesbian scene in Hongdae, it requires a bit of research to find.

If you’re just winging it, Hongdae is likely to be more of a miss than a hit.

Hidden gems: Tapwater, p.t.s.d. seoul, and PERMIT

For those who love an exclusive experience, events hosted by Tapwater (탭워터), p.t.s.d. seoul, or PERMIT are not to be missed.

Kim describes these gatherings as “super foreign, friendly,” and particularly highlights PERMIT as an event host so good that she almost wanted to gatekeep it.

If you get the chance, definitely check out events from these organizers for an unforgettable and inclusive night out.

Myeongdong: A no-go for queer travelers

Myeongdong might be a shopping hotspot, but it gets a resounding nay for LGBTQ+ travelers.

“And if you and your friends kind of have a ‘look,’ people are gonna look at you,” she warns.

From being stared at to having photos taken without consent, Myeongdong can feel unwelcoming for those who stand out. With so many other, more inclusive areas to explore, Myeongdong is best left off your list.

Seongsu: A stylish slay

If you’re looking to shop in Korea, Seongsu is where it’s at. Kim gives it a “super slay” for its unique and small designers, even if it can be a bit pricey.

“There’s so many more unique and small designers that you should support,” she advises.

If you’re after something truly special, Seongsu won’t disappoint.

Skip the department stores

Finally, Kim advises against spending too much time in huge department stores. “Nay, girl!” she exclaims, adding that while they might have some good basics, they’re not the place to find anything unique, fun, or bold.

Watch the full guide and stay in the loop

To get the full scoop from Blue Kim, check out the Instagram Reel below. Trust us; you don’t want to miss her expert insights!

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