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20 gay retirement communities in the United States

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A group of four elderly men sit around a table playing cards. They are engaged in the game, with one man smiling broadly and the others focusing on their hands.

As the population of openly LGBTQ+ seniors in the United States continues to grow, the need for inclusive and supportive gay retirement communities has become increasingly evident. These communities provide a safe and welcoming environment where LGBTQ+ seniors can live without fear of discrimination or ostracism.

The importance of gay retirement communities

LGBTQ+ seniors often face unique challenges as they age, including social isolation, discrimination, and a lack of family support.

According to Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE), many LGBTQ+ elders have experienced indignities such as being denied the opportunity to share a room with their same-sex partner or receiving insensitive treatment from staff members who object to homosexuality. These experiences can lead to feelings of loneliness and the need to “go back into the closet” when entering the senior care system.

Gay retirement communities address these issues by providing a supportive environment where residents can live openly and authentically. These communities often offer specialized services and cultural training programs to ensure that staff members are equipped to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ seniors. 

Additionally, they foster a sense of community and belonging, which is crucial for the mental and emotional well-being of residents.

LGBTQ+ retirement homes across the U.S.

Several retirement communities across the United States cater specifically to the needs of LGBTQ+ seniors. Here are some notable ones around the country that offer varying amenities and services:

  1. Birds of a Feather (Pecos, New Mexico)
  2. The Palms of Manasota (Palmetto, Florida)
  3. Stonewall Gardens (Palm Springs, California)
  4. The Connie House (Boynton Beach, Florida)
  5. A Place for Us (Cleveland, Ohio)
  6. Triangle Square (West Hollywood, California)
  7. John C. Anderson Apartments (Philadelphia, Pennsylvania)
  8. Open House Community at 55 Laguna (San Francisco, California)
  9. Town Hall Apartments (Chicago, Illinois)
  10. Fountaingrove Lodge (Santa Rosa, California)
  11. North Park Senior Apartments (San Diego, California)
  12. Stonewall House (Brooklyn, New York)
  13. Crotona Pride House (Bronx, New York)
  14. Bay Shore Senior Residences (Bayshore, New York)
  15. Living Out (Palm Springs, California)
  16. Pride Place (Seattle, Washington)
  17. The Pryde (Hyde Park, Massachusetts)
  18. The Opal (Portland, Oregon)
  19. Rainbow Vista (Gresham, Oregon)
  20. Village Hearth (Durham, North Carolina)

Alternatives to gay retirement communities

For LGBTQ+ seniors who may not have access to a dedicated gay retirement community, there are several alternatives to consider:

  1. LGBTQ+-friendly senior living communities: Many standard senior living and assisted living communities are becoming more inclusive and implementing anti-discrimination policies. It’s important to ask about LGBTQ+ cultural training for staff and the presence of LGBTQ+ clubs and events when considering these communities.
  2. Support organizations: Organizations such as the National Resource Center on LGBT Aging and Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) provide resources and support for LGBTQ+ seniors, helping them find inclusive living options and access necessary services.
  3. Inclusive cities: Some cities are known for their LGBTQ+ inclusiveness and may offer a welcoming environment for LGBTQ+ seniors. Cities like San Francisco, Austin, Atlanta, Chicago, Philadelphia, and Orlando have vibrant LGBTQ+ communities and supportive services for older adults.

Empowering LGBTQ+ seniors

Gay retirement communities play a crucial role in providing a safe and supportive environment for LGBTQ+ seniors. With locations across the United States, these communities offer specialized services and a sense of belonging that is essential for the well-being of their residents.

For those who cannot access a dedicated gay retirement community, exploring LGBTQ+-friendly senior living options and supportive cities can provide alternative solutions.

As the demand for inclusive senior living continues to grow, it is essential to ensure that all seniors, regardless of their orientation or gender identity, can age with dignity and respect.

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